If I knew, " Regrets"

People often look back at there mistakes and relish in the idea of changing one or all parts of the decisions that they have made. Although most people would jump at the idea to change there past we should stop and think , really think of the lessons learned from your choices that not, all the time your choices are just a stupid mistake but it's what you took from the experience. For example you have a friend that borrows a pair of your shoes for a night out on the town but that particular friend did not return the shoes and after sometime you ask for your shoes to be returned but instead you get excuses but not your shoes. Therefore the same friend come back around and act like everything is cool. The friend is good with everything but then this phrase moves to asking for another item to be borrowed after experiencing that minor infraction would you make the same mistake again. You get the picture never put yourself in a position to be used because at the end of it all. You are the one left without your money, your shoes, your cd and so on while others gain from your kindness. You sit and feel all the negative emotions if I knew then what I know now. In our lives we are face with countless decisions but you have an option to think about our choices before we choose. So we know that life are about choices right, what will be the outcome, how will this impact my life is the important question. What is in this for me is it win, win or win lose. Take all these things into consideration even when thinking on the spot you should make the right assessment that will not leave you in a bad state. Just remember at the end of the day how would you like to be feeling think about the scariest things that might happen if you were to decide the way you do and when you do decide to go ahead make sure you have thought it out completely that way you will have no regrets.